The One Prompting Technique That Separates Good AI Users From Great Ones
Here's something that surprises most beginners: AI will produce a confident, well-structured argument for absolutely any position you give it. Tell it to defend, and it will. Tell it to defend the opposite, and it'll do that just as persuasively. This isn't a flaw—it's a feature. And once you understand it, everything changes about how you approach these tools. The skill that separates effective AI users from the rest is simple but counterintuitive: ask for the counterargument, and make it strong. I call this the adversarial prompting sequence, and it starts with what philosophers call a "steel man"—the strongest possible version of the opposing view. Instead of asking AI "why am I right about X," ask "what is the strongest argument someone could make against my position on X?" You'll get a rigorous, well-sourced case that forces you to engage with actual complexity rather than a straw man you can easily knock down. But go further. Once you've got that steelman, turn it loose on your own reasoning. Ask something like: "Given the strongest counterargument you just presented, where is my position most vulnerable? What are the two or three weakest points in my reasoning?" This is uncomfortable—you're essentially paying AI to critique your thinking—but it's where real intellectual progress happens. You'll identify blind spots you didn't know you had and strengthen arguments before you ever share them with another person. The payoff is that AI becomes something different for you: not a validation machine that tells you what you want to hear, but an intellectual sparring partner who takes your ideas seriously enough to test them. That's the real skill here—not getting AI to agree with you, but using AI to make your thinking sharper than it would be on its own.